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An Escorts Personal View of Massage in
Canada
Escorting vs. typical view of ""prostitution""
Escorting is an outlet to capture and release the essence of human sexuality. It is erotica and sensuality, a little on the risqu? side perhaps but fun. It is safe in that there are no expectations but a wonderful time to be shared. Is that so wrong? Before you condemn me for my escorting, see my world through my eyes. Don't feel pity for me for what I do but be happy that I experience all that I do. Do not pray for me to break free from this lifestyle but pray for yourself that you have a chance to set your sexuality free. And most importantly, don't feel that because you are paying for my services that you have the right to treat me as you feel just. I respect myself and stand up for my chosen profession of escorting.
I kiss men in a way that some have never felt. They are my lover for the time that we are together. We experience together a most amazing connection. I give to them a renewed sense of themselves. They give to me the pleasure of having satisfied and at times satisfied myself. I leave smiling and so do they.
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An Escorts Personal View of Massage in
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I offer them companionship and intimacy. Yes, it is paid for but that does not make it any less sincere. (Dave notes this is similar to my many comments about ""love for the moment"" in swinging and in sexwork which is far different from ""falling in love"" but is for the moment a caring ""love"" for the moment of the wonderful soul you are interacting with. Even if only for an hour and if you are paying for their time together). Call me a whore, a prostitute or a slut and you condemn yourself as well. They are names, and while they are unpleasant they do not hurt me as their meanings are only attached to them by ignorance. I know I will never change how society views myself and others like me. But it will never make me any less proud of what I do or more importantly, who I am.
Society and SexThe ""outsider's"" view on the adult entertainment industry is quite negative, but just why is that? Dirty, disgusting, rank, filthy, unlawful and just plain sick. We've all heard it, we all know what they think. We all go to great lengths to protect our identity from them. Our actions discreet and our lies abundant. But why do we feel that need to hide what we do when, if attacked publicly we are so quick to defend?
We laugh at the politicians that try to condemn us. We ridicule the ones that are so closed minded they themselves cannot see the beauty in what we do. But yet we do not share our interests with our neighbors, nor our closest friends. Why is society as a whole unable to accept the concept of sharing sex and what a beautiful thing that is to share and how escorting is a worthwhile service?
It had been my understanding that even in the earliest days, group sex or swapping of your mates was considered a ""neighbourly"" social event. Sex was to be admired, appreciated perhaps even so well liked it was worshipped. Just where did things go wrong?
I find it hard to believe that we were created so beautiful and sensual to not enjoy our bodies, to not be expected to touch each other, ravish one another and be intertwined in human flesh. We are the only animal in the kingdom that seeks sexual involvement for pure gratification. Don't
you think it was meant to be that way? We were wired that way so why shouldn't it be? So why do most feel that sex is to be only shared between a man and his wife? How has it become that sex is viewed as something dirty when, in my opinion there could be nothing more pure!
Some say that woman's rights and the whole movement of women and their equality in this world has thus made a stand for women in the sex trade or as I prefer escorting. That as escorts we are abused, demoralized and that the men using our services are contributing to the
degradation of women. Unfortunately, even in this day and age there are women forced to work the streets, forced to live a life of prostitution. I am not here to appear ignorant that these things do not go on but I can only speak of my experiences in this business. These men are your doctors, your bosses and your neighbours. They run companies like Microsoft and GM, they are your relatives and your husbands. They are wonderful people looking for wonderful experiences. The women, they are professionals too. They are bosses, they are soccer moms, PTA members. They have other jobs, they may not. They have morals, intelligence and it just so happens??..they really like sex and escorting is a good way to go!
In my time in this business I likely will not see the day that I will be comfortable enough to flaunt what I do, to tell my neighbors and my friends just what a wonderful experience escorting has been for me. But it does not make me any less proud of what I do. I can only thank the men for treating me as well as they have, for giving to me as I give to them. No matter what society may think, this for me, will always be about just that?..giving.
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Be True to Yourself Many women in escorts are willing to sacrifice all that they believe in for the sake of a dollar.
I see that as a sign of weakness and insecurity. It is ok to say no, to let others know that there are some things you do not enjoy or make you uncomfortable. A good time can be had by all and yet not involve making sacrifices. I feel it is not my job as an escort to give a client everything he asks for but to join him in a mutually satisfying experience. I feel that for him to enjoy, I have to be enjoying too. You can't fake that each and every time without being called on it.
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How view of men changed:
""How has your view of men changed in the past year?"" Men are pigs. That is how I truly viewed them 10 months ago. Not to say that some are not, but I now have a better understanding of them today. Truthfully, I see very little difference (aside from physically) between the men I have seen and myself.
They want to feel needed, sexy, wanted. It's not about them touching you, they also want to be touched. They can be very passionate, even romantic! Some men have brought candles, chocolates, plants and flowers. They have hearts and they feel just as women do. I am surprised that while it is my ""duty"" to take interest in them, they take interst in me without feeling the need to. I know they expect that from me (no, I do not consider it a duty but I do know it is expected) but for them to take interest in my health, my life.... that truly does amaze me. Very few men in my life have ever cared what I thought or complimented me the way these men have. Because of them my life has changed. These men are strangers and yet they take the time to make me smile. That is a wonderful gift so if anything, I appreciate them for what they give to me.
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